“I like it when you feel you can discuss things”: A qualitative study on sharing medical care for children with profound intellectual and multiple disabilities.

In the Netherlands, many parents of children with profound intellectual and multiple disabilities care for their children at home. Little is known about how parents and involved healthcare professionals share and align medical care for these children. This study aims to contribute to a better understanding of the dimensions that affect how medical care is shared and how healthcare professionals can align care with family needs. The study design was inspired by grounded theory. We analyzed in-depth interviews with 25 Dutch parents. The analysis identified five dimensions affecting how parents and professionals shared and aligned medical care: fragility, planned care, irregularities, interactions with providers, and parents’ choices. We recognized three distinctive ways these dimensions interplayed, characterizing scenarios of sharing care: dependent care, dialogical care, and autonomous care. The findings illuminated that parental distress decreased when parents could communicate about what they considered important for their child and family and its implications for sharing care. Parents developed their capacity to manage medical care and often evolved in their thinking about the quality of care and life. Sometimes this evolution was due to struggles with the care provided by professionals. Therefore, healthcare professionals may need to broaden the relational work of shared decision-making to include the sharing of medical care. Arrangements need to be continually reassessed as changes in the child’s and family’s situation trigger changes in preferred patterns of sharing care. Commitment to parents’ autonomy implies that healthcare professionals should be attentive to the parents’ emotional and relational needs.